Discipline…
and everything else, too

One private place for accountability, feelings, shared knowledge, and getting things done.

More than just a behavior chart, weminder is a toolkit for relationship accountability in consensual power exchange dynamics.

Perhaps you’re the top, and you need help to guide and track agreed-upon behaviors in your relationship. You want to track their behavior, reward them when agreed-upon behaviors are met, and apply thoughtful, pre-negotiated consequences when they aren’t.

Or maybe you’re the bottom, and you want a way to let your top know how you’re doing. You know your actions matter, as does their guidance.

That’s what weminder is for. Not just a reminder, a we-minder.
It’s about:

  • Behavior — reinforce what matters

  • Reference — share important notes privately

  • Moods — say how you’re really doing

  • Tasks — manage shared responsibilities, together

One chart per dynamic. Go Deluxe and keep as many as you need.

And it’s coming soon to iPhone and Android.

Pick your fit
Three ways to use weminder. Start free. Change tier anytime.

Free

For trying it out, or keeping it simple.

  • One shared chart with your partner

  • Up to 5 recurring tasks

  • 20-second voice notes

  • 15 days of event history, 6 months of stats

  • 100 Toucoins at signup to spend in the Shop

Plus For couples who want more room to grow.

  • $2.99 / month

  • $14.99 every 6 months (1 month free)

  • $29.99 / year (2 months free)

Everything in Free, plus:

  • Up to 20 recurring tasks

  • 45-second voice notes

  • 30 days of event history, 12 months of stats

  • Add premium features à la carte — Pins and Advanced Sound Rules

  • 50 Toucoins each month for the Shop

Deluxe The whole thing, no limits.

  • $6.99 / month

  • $34.99 every 6 months (1 month free)

  • $69.99 / year (2 months free)

Everything in Plus, plus:

  • Unlimited charts and recurring tasks

  • Two-minute voice notes

  • 90 days of event history, 3 years of stats

  • All premium features included — no à la carte needed

  • Share moods across multiple charts

  • 75 Toucoins each month for the Shop

Two things you can buy in weminder: subscriptions and Toucoins.
Subscriptions raise limits and unlock features.
Toucoins are an in-app currency for Shop items like icons and sounds — every subscription includes a monthly allotment, and you can earn more through referrals and milestones or buy more directly.

Unlocked Shop items stay with your account even if you change tier.

Prices in USD. Subscriptions auto-renew; cancel anytime from your App Store or Google Play account.

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